going out last night.

And seeing how things are. I came to realized something about relationships.

They are like muscles, or health. If you want to be fit and strong, you need to be consistent in working to achieve it. Know your body, what you want to get out of it, 

you've got to see what to eat and drink ( consume )

your lifestyle and atmosphere you are in ( is it healthy, fresh, lively )

what you are inputting/ sow in order to reap. ( what are you planting/ working on everyday )

Its same for a relationship/ friendship. You'll need to know your self. What is good for you, how you are spending your time, with whom ( good or bad influences in your life ) they are all your choice. God gave us free will, and its our duty to be wise, and make the best choices and decisions each day. 

I also remember watching a sunday adelaja video. He said " Im going to challenge everyone who wants to try to be better than be, but first i have to know that i am the best, that i did all that i can, to know that i am smarter than them all " Which tells you, To be on top, you've got to know your field, your game, in order to excel!

Same for the friends i have, I will continue to stay true to myself, holding on to my ethics and values. Not letting myself be influenced by the world. Peer pressure, Not worth it. I'll say, you can always find something , someone good for you, you've got to search :) Always all the time. To not judge or condemn others but know love, to try to relate to them, but know your limits. Well, i don't want to go clubbing anymore i feel it is unhealthy , and its silly being influenced by people who aren't exactly smart in how they use their time. ( unless its a goodfriends party ) and its not something that is bad.

Lord , Thank you :)